Elos da Vida

Pessoas são como elos!
Elos que se entrelaçam pela força do destino
Elos que se definem pelo livre arbítrio
Pessoas que formam histórias
Histórias de vida com rumos pré destinados
Histórias de vida de livre escolha dos próprios atos
O nosso eu é formado de pessoas...


Pessoas que amamos especiais e insubstituíveis!
A nossa história é formada por pessoas
Muitas delas ficam apenas um pouquinho conosco
Outras uma eternidade de tempo físico
Outras infinitamente de tempo imortal
Essas ficam conosco mesmo depois

Que o elo físico se rompe...


São relações eternas de amor!
O rompimento doloroso só é capaz de provocar
O afastamento da matéria
Do espírito jamais
São essas as pessoas que fundamentam
Os nossos alicerces da vida
Elas vão e ficam ao mesmo tempo...


São pessoas que jamais nos deixam a sós!
Pelo simples fato de morarem dentro de nós
Essas são elos inquebráveis
Que nos tornam capazes

De ser também elos eternos
Elos de amizade
Elos de amor...


Assim é a corrente da vida!
Onde as pessoas formam sempre elos
Sinto que vivemos
Em uma nova era de relacionamento de elos
Elos virtuais, mas são reais
Elos que nos marcam profundamente...

Loving Someone From A Distance....

Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to find the person we love we fail to recognize and appreciate the people who love us. We miss out on so many beautiful things and simply because we allow ourselves to been slaved by our own selfish concerns.

Go for the person of deeds and not for the person of words for you will find rewarding happiness not with the person you love but the person who loves you more. The best lovers are those who are capable of loving from a distance, far enough to allow the other person to grow, but never too far to feel the love deep within your being.

To let go of someone doesn’t mean you have to stop loving, it only means that you allow that person to find their own HAPPINESS without expecting the person to come back. Letting go is not just setting the other person free, but it is also setting yourself free from all fears, bitterness, hatred, and anger that you keep in your heart.

Do not let the bitterness rare away your strength and weaken your faith, and never allow pain to dishearten you, but rather let you grow with wisdom in bearing it. You may have found peace in just loving someone from a distance not expecting anything in return. But be careful, for this can sustain life but can never give enough room for us to grow.

We can all survive with just beautiful memories of the past but real peace and happiness come only with open acceptance of what reality is today. There comes a time in our lives when we chance upon someone so nice and we just find ourselves getting so intensely attracted to that person. This feeling soon become a part of our everyday lives and eventually consumes our thoughts and actions.

The sad part of it is when we begin to realize that this person feels nothing more for us than just friendship, or the feelings the person might have for you is just too far from how you love that person. We start our desperate attempt to get noticed and be closer but in the end our efforts are still un-rewarded and we end up being sorry for ourselves.

You don’t have to be bitter on love. What you need to learn is how to accept the verdict of reality without being bitter or sorry for yourself. Believe me, you would be better off giving that dedication and love someone more deserving. Don’t let your heart run your life, be sensible and let your mind speak for itself. Listen not only to your feelings but also to reason as well. Always remember that if you lose someone today, it means that someone better is coming tomorrow: If you lose love it doesn’t mean that you failed in love. Cry, if you have to, but make it sure that the tears wash away the hurt and the bitterness that the past has left with you.

Let go of yesterday and love will find its way back to you. And when it does, pray that it may be the love that will stay and last a lifetime.

“When you lose someone, and you think you were the one who loved most, between the two of you, that someone lost more. For someday you can love someone the way that you loved that someone, but that someone will never be loved again the way that you did.”

I Still Believe In Happy Endings...

Em um mundo onde os sentimentos não são valorizados, é quase um suicídio se apaixonar.

 

Good Enough

Under your spell again

I can't say no to you

Crave my heart and it's bleeding in your hand

I can't say no to you

Shouldn't let you torture me so sweetly

Now I can't let go of this dream

I can't breath but I feel good enough

I feel good enough for you

Drink up sweet decadence

I can't say no to you

And I've completly lost myself and I don't mind

I can't say no to you

Shouldn't let you conquer me completly

Now I can't let go of this dream

Can't believe that I feel good enough

I feel good enough

It's been such a long time coming, but I feel good

And I'm still waiting for the rain to fall

Pour real life down on me

Cause I can't hold on to anything this good enough

Am I good enough for you to love me too?

So take care what you ask of me

Cause I can't say no

" Never ignore a person that loves you, cares for you and misses you. Because one day, you might wake up from your sleep and realize you lost the moon while counting stars. "

One day you learn that...

After some time you learn the difference,
The subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul.
And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning,
And company doesn't always mean security.
And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts,
And presents aren't promises.
And you begin to accept your defeats,
With your head up and your eyes ahead,
With the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child.
And you learn to build all your roads on today,
Because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans,
And futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight.
After a while you learn,
That even the sun burns if you get too much,
And learn that it doesn't matter how much you do care about,
Some people simply don't care at all.
And you accept that it doesn't matter how good a person is,
She will hurt you once in a while,
And you need to forgive her for that.
You learn that talking can relieve emotional pain.
You discover that it takes several years to build a relationship
based on confidence,
And just a few seconds to destroy it.
And that you can do something just in an instant,
And which you will regret for the rest of your life.
You learn that the true friendships,
Continue to grow even from miles away.
And that what matters isn't what you have in your life,
But who you have in your life.
And that good friends are the family,
Which allows us to choose.
You learn that we don't have to switch our friends,
If we understand that friends can also change.
You realize that you are your best friend,
And that you can do do anything, or nothing,
And have good moments together.
You discover that it takes years to build trust and only seconds to destroy it,
and that you can do things in an instant which you will regret for the rest of your life.
You discover that the people who you most care about in your life,
Are taken from you so quickly,
So we must always leave the people who we care about with lovely words,
It may be the last time we see them.
You learn that the circunstances and the enviroment have influence upon us,
But we are responsible for ourselves.
You start to learn that you should not compare yourself with others,
But with the best you can be.
You discover that it takes a long time to become the person you wish to be,
And that the time is short.
You learn that it doesn't matter where you have reached,
But where you are going to.
But if you don't know where you are going to,
Anywhere will do.
You learn that either you control your acts,
Or they shall control you.
And that to be flexible doesn't mean to be weak or not to have personality,
Because it doesn't matter how delicate and fragile the situation is,
There are always two sides.
You learn that heroes are those who did what was necessary to be done,
Facing the consequences.
You learn that patience demands a lot of practice.
You discover that sometimes,
The person who you most expect to be kicked by when you fall,
Is one of the few who will help you to stand up.
You learn that maturity has more to do with the kinds of experiences you had
And what you have learned from them,
Than how many birthdays you have celebrated.
You learn that there are more from you parents inside you than you thought.
You learn that we shall never tell a child that dreams are silly,
Very few things are so humiliating,
And it would be a tragedy if she belived in it.
You learn that when you are angry,
You have the right to be angry,
But this doesn't give you the right to be cruel.
You discover that only because someone doesn't love you
the way you would like her to,
It doesn't mean that this person doesn't love you the most she can,
Because there are people who love us,
But just don't know how to show or live that.
You learn that sometimes it isn't enough being forgiven by someone,
Sometimes you have to learn how to forgive yourself.
You learn that with the same harshness you judge,
Some day you will be condemned.
You learn that it doesn't matter in how many pieces your heart has been broken,
The world doesn't stop for you to fix it.
You learn that time isn't something you can turn back,
Therefore you must plant your own garden and decorate your own soul,
Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure.
You really are strong .
And you can go so farther than you thougt you could go.
And that life really has a value.
And you have value within the life.
And that our gifts are betrayers,
And make us lose
The good we could conquer,
If it wasn't for the fear of trying.

This poem was written by Veronica A. Shoffstall in 1971

"Who doesn't look for you, doesn't miss you. Who doesn't miss you, doesn't love you. Fate determines who walks into your life, but you decide who you let walk out, who you let stay and who you refuse to get away.The truth hurts only once, a lie hurts every time you remember it. Never treats someone as a priority if that someone treats you like an option".

Tell him....

Tell him that I’ve moved  to another city, say that you saw me too happy, so don’t tell him that I freaked out and neither that I was going crazy, don't let him know that I am dying little by little, invents a story as you want,  but don't tell the truth, tell him that now I live on the beach, that I live the life I've always dreamed and asked God...tell him that I've found peace and you saw me smiling.. I just want him to remember our beautiful moments, cos this suffering is mine, and it won't be devided.. this is the pure truth I love and I miss.

Long Distant Relationships. People say :

-You’ve never even met them.
-They could be cheating on you right now.
-How can you love someone that you only see on tokbox or tinychat.
-You’re not really sleeping with them, you’re sleeping on the phone with them.
-“You’ll find someone better in your distance.”

Well I think it’s cute if people can maintain a distant relationship without giving up cause people say, “they’re cheating on you.” Thats how you know it’s a real relationship, especially cause theres so much trust. To be honest, you don’t even have to see someone to love someone. If someone can make you laugh and feel butterflies through a camera, then it’s real love because that means that even through camera, phone, or i.ms, they could still love each other through all of that.

We Were Meant To Be

Somewhere in time

We fell in love

Our feelings were so strong

Stars sparkled up above

Somewhere in time

Nothing else mattered

We were together

Until our hopes and our dreams were shattered

Somewhere in time

Great memories are there

Our love was once great

Nothing could compare

Somewhere in time

Our love stands still

A love that we lost

Somehow, against our will

Somewhere in time

We'll meet again

Somewhere in time

Our love will never end.

Sometimes people want to leave, and I can't stop them. Sometimes people don't want to go, but they have to. Other times, if I'm lucky, things end mutually. But in every situation, I find myself unable to let go. Maybe I should, but I can't or I don't want to or I don't know how.

You can't lose what you never had. You can't keep what's not yours. And you can't hold on to something that doesn't want to stay. You just can't.

"Why do you prefer long distance relationship? If you can trust someone who lives hundreds miles away, that's beautiful. Sure you don't get to hug, kiss, or wake up next to the person but you get to talk to them, hear them. Think about how amazing it's going to be when you finally get to meet. It's hard, it's harder than a lot of things, but it's worth in the end. Why let the distance ruin your feeling to someone? Feeling are feeling, love is love; that's not gonna change."